AVOID WEDDING PHOTO DISASTERS! HOW TO HIRE THE PERFECT PHOTOGRAPHER

BRIDES-TO-BE, READ THIS!

Feb 09, 2025

I’ve seen way too many horror stories of brides left devastated by their wedding photographers—blurry photos, missed moments, or worse, a photographer who vanishes with their pictures. Let’s make sure that never happens to you.

And if your friend is getting married, send this to her (or him). Don’t be a mean girl

I get it—your niece took a photography course last summer. Cute. But that doesn’t mean she’s ready to capture one of the most important days of your life. A wedding is not the time for a beginner to "practice."

But Bonnie, Wedding Photographers Are Expensive!

Yes, they are. And you know what else is expensive? Regret. Your wedding lasts a few hours. Your photos last forever. If you’re looking to cut costs, do it elsewhere. The photographer should not be on the chopping block.

What Makes a Wedding Photographer Worth It?

It’s not just about having a camera. A great wedding photographer needs to:

📸 Catch moments as they happen—because weddings don’t come with do-overs.
💡 Handle tricky lighting—especially during evening receptions or dimly lit venues.
🗣 Manage people like a pro—because drunk guests, awkward family members, and camera-shy grooms are inevitable. A great photographer knows how to take control, give direction, and capture the perfect shot—keeping the energy fun while staying practically invisible.

Bottom line: A wedding photographer isn’t just someone who clicks a button. They are the only person responsible for capturing the moments you’ll look back on for a lifetime. Choose wisely.

Rule #2: Don’t Expect a Miracle

If you’re looking at a photographer’s portfolio and their work doesn’t resonate with you, don’t assume they’ll magically bring your dream wedding photos to life just because they’re a professional. They won’t.

No matter how much they promise, they can’t read your mind. If their style doesn’t match what you want, hiring them in hopes that they’ll suddenly transform into the photographer of your dreams is a recipe for disappointment.

Hire someone who’s already producing the kind of work you love. If you love vivid colors, don’t hire a photographer known for muted sepia tones. If you prefer candid shots, avoid someone who primarily works in a studio. It might seem obvious, but I’ve seen this mistake happen time and time again.

Every photographer has their own signature style—it’s what makes them stand out. I’m not a wedding photographer; I’m a fashion photographer, and I have a very specific way of working. The same goes for every other photographer.

Yes, we, professionals can adapt, but why gamble? Instead of hoping someone will change for you, book a photographer whose style already aligns with your vision. That way, you know exactly what to expect—and you’ll get exactly that in return.

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Rule #3: Book the Damn Engagement Shoot

When I was getting married, I almost skipped the engagement shoot. It felt like just another unnecessary expense—especially since I’m a photographer and take pictures with my husband all the time.

But here’s the thing: that engagement session isn’t just about cute photos—it’s a test run.

🔹 You’ll see if you actually vibe with your photographer. Do they make you feel comfortable? Can they direct you in a way that feels natural?

🔹 They’ll learn how you move in front of the camera. That way, on your wedding day, they already know your best angles and what works for you.

🔹 You’ll get a sneak peek at their turnaround time and professionalism. Do they deliver on time? Do they communicate well? Are the results worth it?

I feel like eating cake right now @dolcebitebymaru

Your wedding photos aren’t something you want to gamble on. So book the damn engagement shoot.

With my ladies—Jenny Blanco, Lily, Valentina Patruno, and Andreita!

Rule #4: Use Recommendations. Use a Contract. Protect Your Photos.

There are way too many horror stories about couples who hired a photographer, only to never receive their wedding photos. Honestly, it makes me sick.

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There’s no foolproof way to protect yourself from this, but there are steps you can take to be diligent:

📌 Use a photographer who comes recommended. If a friend or family member has already worked with them and had a good experience, that’s a solid sign of reliability.

📌 Have a contract. And not just any contract—a detailed one that includes specific delivery deadlines. Maybe they promise a preview within a week and the full album in two months. Whatever the timeline, make sure it’s written down.No handshake deals.

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Bonus Tip: Look Your Best in Every Wedding Photo

Aside from hiring the right photographer, there’s one thing you can do to improve your wedding pictures: be mindful of your posture.

I’ve seen countless beautiful wedding photos ruined by slouching or an unintentional double chin. Weddings are full of candid shots, and you won’t always be posing—so every now and then, take a second to check in with yourself: shoulders back, head high, confidence on.

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