WHY YOUR PHOTOS FEEL OFF
Love challenge INTRO (Gift inside)
Last week, I introduced this month’s Love Photo Challenge: Capture Connection & Transform Into Effortlessly Photogenic
To kick things off—and because I can’t resist a good theme—I whipped up some fabulous phone wallpapers so we can all match this month, like one big, overly coordinated (but very chic) fam. The download link’s waiting for you at the end of this post, so stick around!
But first, let’s talk about something I keep hearing:
"I always do the same old pose with my friends."
"I have no idea what to do when I’m taking a pic with my hubby."
"I don’t post any pictures—they’re all horrific."
Sound familiar?
You’re definitely not alone. It happens to everyone.
Even the most confident people suddenly forget how their arms work the second someone says, “Say cheese!”
Here’s the thing:
It’s not you—it’s the know-how. Your photos feel off because there’s no chemistry. And once you crack that code, everything changes.
The Chemistry Shift
When most people pose with their loved ones, they tend to fall into one of these traps:
❌ Leave it to luck
❌ Stand stiff like mannequins
❌ Overdo it with awkward, forced smiles
And if you don’t know what to do, it only makes things ten times worse.
But here’s the shift:
💡 You realize looking good in photos isn’t about luck—it’s about technique.
💡 You learn how to position your body in a way that feels natural.
💡 You stop overthinking, and you start connecting.
That’s why Week 1 of the Love Photo Challenge is all about chemistry.
Because once you learn how to create real connection in your photos, everything changes.
What You’ll Learn This Week
Inside this challenge, I’ll show you how to:
✅ Stop feeling awkward and start feeling in control when posing with others.
✅ Realize that looking photogenic isn’t about luck—it’s all about technique.
✅ Capture genuine chemistry with your partner, kids, or friends—anyone you love sharing the frame with.
And yes, even if you think you’re not photogenic.
What to expect?
On Friday, I’ll send a special workshop to my paid subscribers with advanced techniques to create next-level chemistry in your photos.
The chat is already live! I’ll be hanging out with you all month, sharing fresh prompts and fun activities to keep things exciting. Make sure to jump in and participate—you’ll get so much more out of the challenge!
Not a paid member yet? No worries—you can still upgrade and join us before Friday to get real actionable steps!
Your Homework Before Friday’s Chemistry Workshop
Before we dive into capturing connection, here’s what I want you to do:
1️⃣ Write down 3 ideas for how you’d like to capture love this week. Is it a cozy dinner with friends? A candid selfie or sweet photo with your partner?
Think of ideas that feel doable for you right now—big or small, casual or planned. The goal is simply to take a leap.
On Friday, I’ll share actionable steps to help you shape our weekly goal: one photo that truly showcases connection.
How to Join the Challenge
📅 First Workshop: Drops Friday – How to Show Chemistry in Photos
🎯 Goal: Create one photo that radiates connection and chemistry. IG is gonna burn! lol.
📢 What You’ll Learn: How to be photogenic with others this Valentine’s week (no awkward yearbook vibes, I promise).
💥 Step 1: Subscribe below 👇
💥 Step 2: Join the live session (replay available if life gets in the way).
💥 Step 3: Start turning those “meh” social media photos into a gold mine.
🚀 This is where the real magic—and growth—happens. Let’s do this.
👇 Join now 👇
A Little Gift for You 🎁
Like I said at the beginning—your girl loves a good theme. So, I whipped up these wallpapers so we can all match this month! They’re all about that burgundy/pink love aesthetic, except for the last one… that one’s for any rebels out there who like to keep things interesting. 😏
There are 6 different designs to choose from, so pick your favorite (or collect them all—I won’t judge).
What to Do:
1️⃣ Download it to your phone.
2️⃣ Set it as your wallpaper.
3️⃣ Snap a pic! (If you’re feeling shy, a photo of your phone is totally fine—but I’d love to see your face too!).
4️⃣ Drop it in the chat! (I’ll open the thread tomorrow so you can share it there. You’ll get an email notification when it’s live—plenty of time to snap the pic!).
Can’t wait to see everyone’s matching vibes! 💕
This is just a fun, informal way to show you’re part of the challenge. Think of it as our secret handshake. 🤝
Download Them Here: