Some people think you need to be sipping an overpriced espresso in Paris or posing against a Santorini sunset to get the perfect photo.
But I’ve found that all you really need is a cute dress (I went for this Boden midi)
A little something to add a pop (cue my light spring coat)
Here’s a close-up so you can get a better idea of the material, perfect for those tricky transition seasons.
And a comfortable pair of flats for when you’re the photographer, model, and creative director all in one. (Tripod here)
The real trick, though, is finding a wall. That’s it. Just a wall.
You’d be amazed at how little space you actually need for a great shot. For a similar look to my photo, it could be a weathered brick church or an old university building. In Chicago, it’s not hard to find something with a bit of character, but you can make almost any wall work if you’re willing to see it differently.

Sometimes the most uninspiring places are just the ones we’ve seen a thousand times. It’s easy to overlook the charm of a cracked brick wall or a chipped corner when you pass it every day. But finding a spot with a bit of texture or a color that catches your eye can be a small act of rebellion against the ordinary. Suddenly, your neighborhood starts to feel a little less predictable and a little more like a backdrop for a life that’s still unfolding.
And yes, you might feel a little ridiculous setting up a tripod while someone in a minivan watches you pose through their rearview mirror. But trust me, the payoff is worth it. And if you really want to make it fun, share this post with a friend, pick a date, pick a wall, and take turns snapping each other’s photos. So fun!
For my paid subscribers, I’ll be diving deeper into poses and tips this Friday. Everything you need to feel a little less awkward when the camera’s pointed your way. If you haven’t upgraded yet, consider it. You can cancel anytime, but I have a feeling you’ll stick around when you see your photos transformations.
With love,
Bonnie
P.S. Still hunting for a Mother’s Day gift? I shared a chic guide on Monday. You can check it out here:
PROOF YOU’RE THE FAVORITE CHILD, IN GIFT FORM
I don’t know your mom, but let’s assume she’s fabulous. Most are. They raise humans, survive group chats, and somehow still find your missing shoe. If that’s the bar, then this is what I’d get her.